anyway. i’m about to list my favorite shows of the past year, but before i do, i realized that last year i forgot to add the tom petty & steve winwood show at the american airlines center in dallas to my list. i don’t know how this one got overlooked since it. was. awesome. but alas, it did. but now it hasn’t. on with the show…
#1 - BLUE OCTOBER - DFest (Tulsa, 25 July)

justin furstenfeld (photo credit: me)
there are so few bands anymore that can capture me and take me away from everything else and get me in that zone. you know where nothing matters, you feel like you’re connected to the band and you just want to scream “i know EXACTLY what you’re saying.” i just feel so….connected when i see blue october. i’ve been pretty depressed (in the past and in the present) and listing to them just does the trick. they have never failed to raise my spirits and make me feel better. so it’s already a great show and they’re totally on and they start playing “into the ocean” and when they get to the bridge and justin opens his arms and sings “let the rain come down”…
it starts POURING.
literally.
it was magical. that’s really all i can say. it gave me chills.
for the rest of the set i was basically in blue october euphoria. i only have two downsides: one, they didn’t play “a quiet mind” and two, during “hate me” (i think) when justin sang “i’ve been sober now for three whole months” he visibly crossed his fingers which made me kind of sad. i only met him once or twice back in the day, but i know that he’s been through a LOT of shit in his life and has and is battling lots of stuff, and the thought of him slipping back make me a little sad. i’m not completely sure why, but maybe when you put so much store in a person’s words and give those words healing power…it doesn’t make you feel like they were empty words, but…i don’t know.
#2 - FLEETWOOD MAC - BOK Center (Tulsa, 3 May)

stevie nicks & mick fleetwood (photo credit: sherry brown - tulsa world)
fleetwood mac just played amazing song after amazing song. “the chain” “tusk” “rhiannon” “sara” “landslide” “big love” “gold dust woman” “go your own way” they even played “oh well” which is circa the bob welch incarnation of fleetwood mac! that was probably the biggest surprise. you could not stop your foot from moving or your hands from tapping or your body from swaying. mick fleetwood and john mcvie are quite possibly the best rhythm section in rock and roll. i was inexplicably emotional for the first couple of songs. i don’t know if it was because i’d had such a string of bad news the past 24 hours or if it was because i was seeing one of my all time favorite bands, a band that is kind of in that category of “will i ever get to see them live before they stop playing for good?” i don’t know what it was, but it was an absolutely magical experience.
mick and john were absolutely solid. stevie sounded fantastic, especially for her age, and i rarely like female singers. (actually i can count the female singers i like on one hand: stevie, christine mcvie, chrissie hynde and tori amos). and lindsey buckingham… you know, he seems so full of himself and i remember how pissy he was before his solo show at the brady a few years ago. normally that conceitedness and gallivanting around the stage drawing out applause would annoy the hell out of me but you know what… he’s that fucking good.
so it definitely knocked someone out of my “top five greatest shows i’ve ever seen” i’m just not sure which yet. i might have to change it to a “top six.”
#3 - THE FEDS Final Show - The Marquee (Tulsa, 10 January)

matt slider & the feds (photo credit: mike hulett)
it didn’t really start to get emotional until aidan got up on stage and started talking about the feds and how they renewed his faith in music and made him believe in rock n roll again and how they’re all amazing, generous people on top of it all. they played a few more songs. played “a touch of panic” for the encore. and that was it. the end of the last great rock band of my (relative) youth.
#4 - OSO CLOSO CD Release - Hailey’s (Denton, 4 September)

(photo credit: me)
so the show was mind-blowingly fantastic. my brother, geoff, and i picked up our custom-painted cigar boxes and cds (and i finally got my oso closo pillow from the fabulous amy donaldson) and we left for home. on the way i was perusing the liner notes and saw that the boys thanked me. that on top of the show and the pillow and the cigar box and the show again pretty much made my night. so. happy.
#5 - KINGS OF LEON - Ford Center (OKC, 3 October)

(photo credit: kraviz - filmmagic - rollingstone)
#6 - ERIC CLAPTON & STEVE WINWOOD - American Airlines Center (Dallas, 23 June)

(photo credit: kubacheck)
#7 - RENT - Music Hall at Fair Park (Dallas, 10 May)

anthony rapp & adam pascal (photo credit: broadwaysd.com)
i mean, rent was such a huge part of my life in high school. i NEVER thought i’d get to see any of the original cast members perform. EVER. but to watch as adam and anthony sang “what you own” and to see them both on stage…it felt like what i imagine it would be like in new york at the nederlander in the ’90s. just…. $^&@#$
#8 - DAVID COOK - Firelake Grand Casino (Shawnee, 6 November)

neal tiemann (photo credit: me)
#9 - DEATH CAB FOR CUTIE - Brady Theater (Tulsa, 12 April)

ben gibbard (photo credit: me)
#10 - PAUL McCARTNEY - BOK Center (Tulsa, 17 August)

rusty anderson & paul mccartney (photo credit: tom gilbert - tulsa world)
#11 - THE REMUS LUPINS - Hardesty Library (Tulsa, 2 July)

alex carpenter (photo credit: me)
i shot the show, but it was hard to not lose yourself in it. it’s so high-energy and fun. i won’t bore you with the details (like how toby played “hedwig’s theme” on the saxophone as the intro to the amazing song, “remember cedric”) but i had such a great time.
#12 - OSO CLOSO & PARACHUTE MUSICAL - Boiler Room, 51st Street Speakeasy, & Exit 6c - (Denton, OKC, & Tulsa, 12-14 Februrary)

parachute musical (photo credit: me)
i’d intended on spending the weekend in denton with friends, but when everything crashed down on me that night after the show at the boiler room, i decided to head back to oklahoma. i met up with my brother in oklahoma city (about half way home for me) and we had dinner and hung out. as it turned out i was getting ready to leave town about the same time that parachute musical was supposed to go on across town (but on my way home) so i made an impromptu stop by the speakeasy and caught their and oso’s sets and got to hang a little bit more.
the next night they played exit 6c in tulsa, i called everyone i knew to get them out and they didn’t disappoint. i had to get there really early to sneak my brother in (he’d come home for the weekend) so i hung out with the guys and got to know them more. they played. everyone loved them. and the new friends i made and the new music i discovered provided a really nice bright spot to an absolutely shitty past few days.
#13 - RYAN ADAMS - Brady Theater - (Tulsa, 28 Februrary)

(photo credit: mrphoto)
#14 - OZZY OSBOURNE - Sunset Strip Music Festival - (LA, 12 September)

(photo credit: nate christenson)
#15 - JONATHAN TYLER and the NORTHERN LIGHTS - House of Blues Pontiac Garage - (Dallas, 10 April)

(photo credit: me)
#16 - U2 - Oklahoma Memorial Stadium - (Norman, 18 October)

(photo credit: me)
the show was fantastic. i still don’t really like U2 (“i still haven’t found what i’m looking for” was awesome) but the spectacle of it all was pretty cool. the stage was mammoth and the video screen was really cool. i just don’t know how bands can perform on that big of a stage. you lose almost all the band member interaction that is, to me, one of the most important parts of a live show. it doesn’t feel like you’re watching a band but four individuals doing four different things to the same song. when i go to a show i want to see the band play together. interact. really become one entity, totally in a groove with one another. but that’s just my opinion. i really did have a much better time than i thought i would (i almost didn’t go).
and that’s that, kiddos. sixteen of my favorite shows from the past year. favorite albums coming in the next few days.
